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05.03.1967

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There was style in the way that he stood against the open door of the most mundane 2nd class unreserved compartment that he was travelling in. There was a cigarette which was being smoked by the person in a grey and green tweed jacket. This scenario of fifty years ago is firmly fixed in my mind and I recall it as if it was just the other day. Fifty is golden, it is half a century, it is  really a very very long time. Fifty years ago I saw this person and did not realise then that I would continue to see him for the rest of my life. Amazing, isn't it? A lot has happened in all these years. We have accumulated a lot of fat, we have changed the colour of our hair, there are craters and lines on our countenance, life has added in every which way. We started out as two people whose parents were as diverse as chalk and cheese. They were both quite determined that their children were not made for each other. As young people we had the natural ability to differ from th

12.10.1970.

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TRILOKI AND VARSHA Long long ago, wedding ceremonies did not go on endlessly forever. Functions were not week long, expenditure on clothes was not mind boggling. One did not have wedding planners and deciding the Menu, drawing up the    guest list, booking a hall or park did not cost a fortune. Beauty parlours were not booked, getting ready was all in-house.    Ceremonies of mehendi,    wedding and reception were simple.  Those were the days when a wedding was just a wedding. Simplicity was a virtue and too much of fanfare was usually shunned. Austerity was usually observed. It was not all about designer clothes, gargantuan jewellery, exotic menus and out of the world venues. One did not have to bother about so many different themes and plans. After that little intro, let me now tell you about one such wedding that took place long long ago, to be precise it was 47 years ago. The year was 1970. Those were the days when    a young Engineering graduate was working as a Man